‍September 15, 2017 11:28 AM ET (00:31 GMT) Facebook 533m Newmanwired Couple who persuaded friend to have IVF cancel all future fertility treatments discuss how it changed their lives A post shared by 🦅🏄 (@miss_yvonne_ross) on Sep 15, 2017 at 11:28 AM ET (00:32 GMT) The couple who convinced a friend to have IVF has shared some of the changes they experienced after having the treatment.
What is IVF?
Before we get into the nitty-gritty of IVF, let’s get something straight. This is not a joke. It’s not a passion project. It’s not some kind of sick game. It’s not even a real word. It’s just the measuring stick for how far fertility treatments can take you. You see, in order for fertility treatments to work, you and your partner need to be in a relationship. You can’t be in a relationship with someone and have no idea how to start a family. You also can’t be a single parent and care for your kids while they’re young. These are all reasons you need to be in a relationship with your partner in order to have fertility treatments.
Significant impact of IVF
There are several important factors that led to the significant impact of IVF on the couple’s life. First, the treatment for Mr. H spoke about having a hysterectomy. That surgery, which he had in 2006, left him with a big lump in his peritoneum. There are still freaked-out looking areas in his body, but they’re minor and I’m lucky he didn’t kill himself over it. Second, the couple had to struggle with mood swings. The husband was often very emotional and moody. The wife would often be hyper-focused and irritable. Then there was the husband’s gambling problem. When he was young, he always had a problem with money and often ended up in jail or jailhouse. When he was in his 40s, he was a pathological gambler who lost everything. The couple also grew apart after the incident at the credit union.
3-year follow-up of IVF treatment
When the couple realized they had a problem, they started to think about solutions. The husband checked into a therapy center and was prescribed medication for his mood issues. The couple also got a blood test to see if he was having an eating disorder. They also started to talk to a social worker who helped the couple identify other coping mechanisms they may have been using.
What happens when you divorce?
If you and your partner ever divorced, the divorce process would be easier. You could simply file for a maintenance lien on his behalf and have the lien listed as a debt. In most states, the maintenance lien can be removed once the divorce is final. In fact, if the marriage wasn’t in any type of trouble before the divorce, it can often be cheaper and easier to remove the maintenance lien than if it was in the first place. You also have the option to have the divorce final granted in a county court. This may take longer, but the court can usually issues a magesterial order to settle the issues.
5 reasons why you should have IVF
So far, IVF research has been very encouraging. The treatments work, and in some cases, you can even see a result as early as 2 months after treatment. It’s important to remember that however much therapy you go through, it won’t make up for what happens during your relationship. If you have to choose between your relationship and your career, choose the former. Having a child is a responsibility that anyone can take up. It’s not some kind of special talent. It’s just something you need to take up and take care of. The problems you and your partner had before you got married mean nothing if you can help it grow into a happy family.
Bottom line
The fact that single people can have successful relationships and achieve fertility is incredibly encouraging. The more people you convince to have kids, the more you strengthen your unconventional relationship. And the more you strengthen your unconventional relationship, the more your fertility treatments will benefit you. Now that you’ve gone over the basics of IVF, it’s time to get down to business. The question is, where can you get started? Start by looking in the mirror and figuring out what you’re looking like. Then, take a big, big step. Start by having an idea. Then, start telling the world about it. And when the time comes, start having kids.
